It's hash but true, A degree can help you with getting a job but to get to a position in life, where you are growing and glowing, can only get achieved by learning the soft skills which no Successful people want you to know learn and be like them.
College Dropout CEO of Adani groups, Net worth over $90 billion
College Dropout CEO of OYO, Net worth over $1 billion
Engineer, CEO of Zerodha, Net worth over $1 billion
Some of not just India's but also world renowned names from India, with very basic education level but achieving great success. THEY STARTED FROM 0 BUT NOW THEY ARE HEROS. You must be thinking If these people are not from IIT, IIM Or haven't got any sort of degree from abroad, So how are they and people like them are able to pull it off & getting successful in life and making their dream come true.
It’s harsh but true nobody can understand your emotions, not even your parents(closest people). Nobody cares, You need to learn how understand, manage and handle your own and other people. Successful people in the world are masters in of their emotions.
In life, Trust me nobody ever had & ever can escape from pressure and stress. The happiest and most successful people know are those, who know how to handle and channel pressure for their benefit and growth.
The worst thing you can do is not focus on the process and imagine great results ultimately After entering into the process and finding out the results are not up to your expectations or It’s too tough, Start thing about giving up and continue practicing this loop and with every idea, that’s why 93.12% of Indians are unsatisfied with everything . Why? Because practice create habit and perfection in that particular stuff.
9 out of 10 youth/kids are not getting great results because they are not focused or they are affected by the dip. They like something which can change their life. They start doing or learning and after a point of time might be because of lack of attention, feeling bored, or not having that spark their focus starts dipping and they start making mistakes or procrastinating and ultimately giving up which is super simple and fruitful for them.
The attention span of the majority of kids towards productive and good stuff nowadays is like an Instagram reel. over in seconds, Swipe Up, and Watch new. Don’t want to disrespect but my attention span is reducing like hell nowadays. It’s not your fault it’s actually because of the increased number of distractions. It’s very important how to control your own attention and grab other peoples attention towards you.
You can impress anybody with your Prepared speech or presentation but the actual games are played randomly. No preparation, no set situation, environment, or people. Think about 90% of your interactions in life are never planned. So learning to master this can take you ahead of 95% population.
Think Quick and Talk Smart!
Humor in any of your conversations can change your conversation from boring, serious, unattractive, e.t.c to attractive, and enjoyable and leave a really good mark on the people around you. Great Communicators, leaders, and all the big guys always use humor in their conversations. It’s like salt in your food. Learn to use it right and it will make your conversation taste like a Michelin(5-star restaurant) star dish.
The worst thing you can do is, not use the different tonality in your voice to build authority and change the feel of the conversation. It does not just give character to your voice but also decides your possession in that conversation.
Attention is the most valuable aspect. If you can capture their attention you can almost control and conquer anything you want.
Example: Our Prime minister, Sir Narendra Modi is PM not just because of working well and hard. He got our attention and make us acknowledge the good work and support him in the election.
You got listened, when you talk properly, but you will be respected when you know when to stay silent. Using Silence , Pause and when to end the conversations gives you a hold over other people. But the important fact is you need to learn the skill properly.
In this world no matter how much you try alone to succeed there will be a point when you need people from whom you need to take help to become successful And Lead them and their environment properly.
Example: Sir Ratan Tata is successful because of the leadership he showed and the impact of his leadership on the Brand and the people working for him.
Every time you’re like, the world is not good when society is not Favorable, people don’t want to be friends with you. When you are not getting respected & listened. When even though you are talented in your job, but somebody who is not even close to you in terms of work ethic and talent grabs the position and pride. It’s not them or people it’s your problem. Become a master of social skills it’s extremely important for Relationships and Employment.
Every time you’re like, the world is not good when society is not favorable, people don’t want to be friends with you. When you are not getting respected and listened. When even though you are talented in your job, but somebody who is not even close to you in terms of work ethic and talent grabs the position and pride. It’s not them or people it’s your problem. Become a master of social skills it’s extremely important for Relationships and Employment.
Getting motivation from videos, influencers, and scenarios is good but the real truth is, they never last longer than a couple of days. The only thing which spikes your inner self is, Self-motivation and the most important part is to turn that self motivation into discipline. You need to learn how to do it or else welcome to the community of dreamers not doers.
Acceptance is the only trait that can turn your personality from good to 1 in a million, attractive, magnetic, and best for your self-growth and success. In this world pushing, blaming and avoiding is the new normal but
The list can go on to 100's of those points but you just need to know, work, practice and adapt a few of the basic and important aspects properly and your mindset, Personality and communication skills will get sorted like an achiever, king of your own life and success. This can also determine your status.
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